Who Am I? Foundation Course

Introduction

Lesson 1

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Lesson 3

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Lesson 5

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Lesson 6

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Lesson 7

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Colour Case Study Pictures

Graphic Element PDF

We’ve included a little support package for the graphic elements for you to use in a number of creative ways (creating things like service powerpoints, and for use in fb posts and Whatsapp messages to parents, and even for use on big screens in the children’s group).

I am made by God

Ed and Jam are back ALREADY with a new summer series of seven sizzling podcasts! What was the last thing you made that you were really proud of? And some fun facts about beavers and termites doing things VISIBLE FROM SPACE. And, more importantly, we get stuck into Genesis 1:26-31. Enjoy!

I am made to love others

Which are you into? Cats? Dogs? Or Goldfish? Or Cows? Fun facts about man’s best friend, and what it means to love and be loved. The Bible says it’s not good to be alone (Genesis 2:18-25). But what does that mean? And how did Adam react to the arrival of Eve in the Garden of Eden? HEALTH WARNING: The Faith in Kids Podcast does not accept responsibility for scratches from cats.

I am hurting

Life hurts. There is pain and sadness. And even Jesus wept – even though he was about to something amazing, wonderful and make it all better. Why? Find out as Ed and Jam talk about this (in John 11:32-37) along with woodpeckers and armadillos!

I am given a body

What do you love doing with your body? Climbing trees, jumping on a trampoline or sleeping for hours? Jam loves running down hills and Ed loves swimming in cold rivers. How do adults manage to lose 100 bones? And why can’t new born babies cry when they’re experts at screaming? Have an adventure with your body. Because God has given you just the right one to enjoy! This episode includes teaching on body image, gender and gender identity. We find out from Psalm 139:13-16, and we get a special trip to the hillside where shepherds are trying to work out why baby Jesus didn’t have wings.

I am loved and forgiven

A story about whale vomit that doesn’t involve Jonah? And listen in for the brain exploding story of two brothers; Reg & Richard. If it wasn’t one of Jam’s fun facts we would refuse to believe it could be true. But that’s not even the most incredible story in the episode! That’s because this is the one where Jesus tells us the story about two other brothers. Both got lost, in very different ways. Listen in because all of us, need to know the joy of coming home to our heavenly father, because with Jesus…. I am lost and forgiven.

I am not alone

When did you last need some serious encouragement? Life is hard and we need help. But we are not alone. We look at Acts 9 and why Ananias was terrified. Some more Armadillo Quadruplet names. And don’t forget that you’ve always got to look out for the digestive juices.

Identity Foundations

Ed and Amy talk identity – potato peelers, adoption and why this series exists because we want to help families and churches feel confident to talk about the tough stuff, enjoy our better story and stand on our secure God given identity.

Telling the Better Story with Ed Shaw

Who am I? How would you answer that question? How would you help a younger person answer that question? The Bible gives us a clear answer to this question, and it’s great news! Join Ed and Ed as they talk about how the bible answers the question ‘Who Am I’? Ed Shaw – is the pastor of Emmanuel City Centre in Bristol, England, and part of the editorial team at Living Out. He loves his family and friends, church and city, gin and tonic, and music and books.

The Transgender Debate and Gender Identity

Our culture is busy talking about Gender identity. This episode is for families that feel ill equipped to tackle this topic and would prefer to avoid the conversation. We’d love to support you to step up so that your children can hear the better Christian story. Where this is a present reality in your family, church or community, you’re wondering, “How did we get here? What did we do wrong?” This episode will comfort and urge you to cling to God’s care. Whatever your family’s experience, join in the conversation that encourages parents, reduces panic, builds confidence, offers helpful language and reminds us of the simple rock solid principles God gives. Andrew Bunt, shares his own childhood experience of being gender non conformist, feeling trapped in the wrong body and how his Christian faith offered him freedom. Andrew also works for Living Out. Julie Maxwell, a Community Paediatrician shares insight around the issues children are facing as they struggle with mental health and question their gender. Julie also works for Lovewise.

Lost and Found

Would you still love me if…? How easy is it to come clean about our mistakes? Do your kids find it hard to apologise? What about you? Perhaps you’re more of an older brother in the story of the lost son, depending on your own performance as if God’s love has to be earned. Or a younger brother who fears they’ve gone too far as if God’s love can be lost. Join in a helpfully practical conversation that tackles both of these identity struggles with Ed Drew, Graham Beynon, and Karen Sleeman. Ed Drew – the Director of Faith in Kids grounds the conversation in how we would parent / care for younger primary, upper primary / secondary school children and their families facing these struggles. Karen Sleeman – is the pastoral associate for families in her local church and enjoys working with parents, children and adolescents. She has completed the BCUK intern Scheme and has training in child and adolescent mental health and is working towards accreditation as a family therapist. Dr Graham Beynon – is the pastor of Grace Church, Cambridge, and Director of Independent Ministry Training at Oak Hill. He is the author of a number of books including Mirror Mirror, Emotions: Living Life in Colour (2012, IVP), God’s New Community: New Testament Patterns for Today’s Church (2005, IVP), Planting for the Gospel: a hands on guide to church planting (2011, Christian Focus) and Isaac Watts: His Life and Thought (2013, Christian Focus). He is married to Charis and they have three children. In his spare time he enjoys watching TV with his wife, walking with their dog, trying his hand at DIY, watching sport and playing 5-a-side football.

Parenting Boys. Parenting Girls

“Are boys different from girls?” We probably begin answering that question confidently – then start to feel a little anxious, back out and decide to avoid the topic. On this Faith in Parents episode Matt Fuller, Gen Johnston and Ed Drew tackle the topic together and help us wrap our heads around what the Bible says. We also hear from Andrew Bunt. Our “Who am I?” series of resources aims to equip churches and families to open up conversations about identity, join in the conversation. If you’ve listened to this and want to know more about gender identity, you can start by listening to another one of our podcasts which speaks into this topic. Find that here. Matt Fuller: Matt is the Senior Minister of Christ Church Mayfair. He is married to Ceri. They are very grateful to God for their teenage son, who will imminently flee the nest. He was on the staff of the church when it was planted in January 2001 and has had the enormous pleasure of seeing many people trust in Christ and grow in their faith during this time. He is the author of numerous books including ‘Be true to yourself’. Gen Johnston: Genevieve is on the staff team at Dundonald Church helping the pastors to think through how as a church we disciple or deploy the women in our church in ministry. She’s married to Johnno, they have three teenage daughters and a beloved dog.

Who am I? The Story so Far

Who am I?” The story so far… Amazingly we’ve made it to our 100th episode! Through the ‘Who am I?’ series so far, we’ve been incredibly thankful for the depth of experience and wisdom our guests have so generously shared. We’re delighted with your response to the “Who am I?” series, even the data geeks are pleased as listener figures have been high! So, in this episode, Ed & Amy take us on a highlights tour of the gems we’ve uncovered in the series – Episodes 96 – 99. Tune in to sample the brilliance of the guests who shared and catch up on the story so far. We’re not done yet. There is plenty more in this series to come. Stay tuned!

A Handmade Body with Sam Allberry

80% of women said that looking in the mirror made them feel bad. Our kids hear how we speak about our own bodies, they live in a culture that places value on how our bodies look or what they can do. Is there a better story we can tell our kids than “well I think you look lovely.” Sam Allberry – is a pastor, apologist, author and speaker. He is the author of a number of books, including Is God Anti-Gay?; What God Has to Say About Our Bodies; Why Does God Care Who I Sleep With?; and 7 Myths about Singleness.

Mental Health and Self Harm with Helen Thorne

From silence to tantrums, from verbal outbursts to punching fists, from pulling out hair to cutting themselves; our children are struggling to manage their emotions. There is a lot happening in their lives and they may not be able to talk it all through calmly. Helen Thorne (BCUK) tells us about her own journey through self harm, as well as helping us to calmly think through helping our children with the normal experience of extreme emotions. We are also joined by Simon Poole (CiS) who tells us about a time in his life when his desire for excellence in sport caused him harm. Helen Thorne – is the Director of Training and Resources for Biblical Counselling UK, which seeks to foster and support Christians as they go about the transforming work of Christ that is accomplished through personal ministry of the Word. Helen is an experienced speaker, counsellor and author whose recent books include Hope in an Anxious World, Walking with Domestic Abuse Sufferers, Purity is Possible, Real Change and Real Change for Students. Simon Poole – works for Christians in Sport as part of the Elite Sport Team supporting elite and professional track and field athletes. He lives in Bicester and is a duathlete.

Parenting and Disability a Conversation with Nick and Dorothy Jones

Continuing in our ‘Who am I?’ series this episode explores how Christians can cope with disability and believe in a good God who gives our bodies as a gift to us. We hear from Nick and Dorothy Jones parents from County Cavan in Ireland. Nick is a Rector, Dorothy is a trained physiotherapist, they have two children; a son and a daughter. Their son suffers from Duchenne muscular dystrophy, a life limiting muscle wasting condition for which there is no cure. They share their families story and offer rich encouragement to us all. Nick and Dorothy Jones – Nick Jones is a Rector in County Cavan in Ireland. He is married to Dorothy and they have two children; a son and a daughter. Their son suffers from Duchenne muscular dystrophy.

Parenting Through Tears with Paul Mallard

As parents we instinctively want to protect our children from hurt and harm. Yet we are raising them in a broken world. How do we navigate a hurting world? How do we keep being certain that a Good God is in charge when it hurts so much? Join Ed and Amy as they talk with Paul Mallard, Pastor, Conference Speaker, FIEC Board member, Author, Husband, Dad, Grandad who has invested his suffering and beautifully shares his wisdom here. An honest and encouraging listen! Paul Mallard – was formerly the Pastor of Widcombe Baptist Church in Bath and a member of the FIEC Trust Board. He has been a main speaker at various events, conferences and conventions including Keswick, Word Alive and the Aber Conference. His other books are: Invest Your Suffering An Identity To Die For Invest Your Disappointments

Friendship with Matt Fuller

Everyone wants friends. Most people want more friends. No one wants to be alone. No one is looking for bad friends. Friendship should be simple. It often feels very very complicated. On this podcast hear the Christian distinctive of friendship with Ed, Amy and Matt Fuller. Let’s help our children be the friends they want others to be for them. We have more to offer than invitations to parties and sleepovers. Hear us disagree over whether it is good to say, ‘please be my friend ‘. Matt Fuller: Matt is the Senior Minister of Christ Church Mayfair. He is married to Ceri. They are very grateful to God for their teenage son, who will imminently flee the nest. He was on the staff of the church when it was planted in January 2001 and has had the enormous pleasure of seeing many people trust in Christ and grow in their faith during this time. He is the author of numerous books including ‘Be true to yourself’.

Focus on friendship; in a culture obsessed with sexuality & labels

How can we talk about sexuality to our children? How can we explain the difference between friendship & sexuality? Let’s start by helping our children to understand that all of us need friends. Listen in for a conversation about the current situation in our schools, the developing conversation with our children through puberty and the right way to understand identity labels. Catch Amy’s big news on Farmer Adam’s wife and how the little screaming people in her head have been brought under control. Resources highlighted in this podcast: Finding Your Best identity by Andrew Bunt Raising Confident Kinds in a Confusing World by Ed Drew (Available to pre-order now) ‘Who Am I’ Faith in Kids downloadable resources. Session 2 covers friendship and sexuality Ep 108 – Friendship with Matt Fuller Andrew Bunt, is Emerging Generations Director for Living Out and is part of a church on the south east coast. He is the author of Finding Your Best identity and People Not Pronouns: Reflections on Transgender Experience Julie Maxwell, a Community Paediatrician shares insight around the issues children are facing as they struggle with mental health and question their gender. Julie also works for Lovewise. Ed Shaw – is the pastor of Emmanuel City Centre in Bristol, England, and part of the editorial team at Living Out. He loves his family and friends, church and city, gin and tonic, and music and books.